Has Amanda become a target of teasing or social outcasting by her classmates? Children can often be cruel about simple things like wearing glasses or having a different accent. If she is being harassed talk to her to learn the extent of the situation and then meet with and talk to her teacher. Reinforcing your daughter’s self-esteem will help her minimize the importance she places on the opinions of others.

Is she suddenly having difficulties with her schoolwork or homework assignments? Fear of failure could be a strong motivator for trying to avoid the whole school issue. If she is having a tough time, get her some extra help in the form of tutoring. Be sure to emphasize that needing help doesn’t mean that she is “stupid” or a bad student.

Keep in mind that children also mimic the attitudes of others. Amanda may just be adopting the “anti-school” attitude she hears peers, or older students, mouthing. Nobody wants to be “uncool” if the norm on the playground is school bashing.

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The most important things you can do to help Amanda’s attitude are to keep a up-beat attitude yourself and to keep anline of communication. If the idea of education and being a responsible school citizen is positively fostered at home, your daughter won’t feel embarrassed about enjoying school herself. Daily conversations about her school day will not only show your interest but will provide a chance for her toup about what she is feeling and experiencing.